"Allah menciptakan manusia ini pelbagai ragam dan gaya supaya kita berkenalan dan berfikir."
someone is never the same as you thought what he/she might be. bak kata one of my friend, to know someone, kita kena bermusafir dengan dia. dalam perjalanan tu barulah kita kenal siapa dia sebenarnya. but as for me, to know someone deeper you have to be his/her housemate/roomate. that's why aku pernah cakap kat seseorang, some people can be your friend but never your housemate.
for clarification, this post is not about me.
just hearing stories about other people makes me wonder, how different people are. our perceptions about an issue, no matter how simple or petty it is, are not always in the same track. and in order to keep the harmony, we have to compromise with each other. that's the hardest part. toleration is subjective, and it has a limit.
i've gone through this part long, long time ago. and believe me, you'd rather lose a housemate better than losing a friend. indeed. and now, we're cool. no hard feelings, no grievance, nothing. time heals somehow.